i dont think people are hating you for not yeeting you
im mad at myself for not going through with it (especially because my reasoning for not doing so was very flawed)
but to get mad at you for playing the game would be absurd
yeah a large portion of town didnāt try much at all
There probably needs to be a higher standard of effort on this site
vul and TBE both had 800+ posts in wolfchat and appel had over 300.
cult deserved to win as they put by far the more average effort towards winning the game.
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I donāt feel particularly hated or anything, I just see everyone mentioning this all the time and I felt like addressing it. Itās not like it was your fault alone, we just helped you make the wrong choice. I donāt think any of the villagers who played the game should be criticized very harshly for that reason.
yeah, but todays like, i wish i did more, not this game but like just in general on here. I dont want to say it, but i feel hella responsible
This is the reason why Iām rarely super critical of villages, even if they get curbstomped. It can be really hard to village.
I felt that with kat stumbling around day 3 because barely any villagers left were playing and the yeet target was completely up in the air.
You got nothing to blame on yourself here my guy
Nothing is your fault
Everyone has different thought processes, and they all come to different conclusions.
Hey, do you feel bad about this game? I donāt see how anything that happened was your fault.
Not the game, but idk i just feel like pushing it to three games at one time, feels like it drove a stake in this place. And i did it on a wim, and i regret shit
I think you played very well, and I donāt want to discredit that (and obviously I donāt hate you for trying to win, what).
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I think I misspoke, I donāt feel hated; I just feel like the focus is a bit off because it fails to account for wolf actions. Basically, I want you guys to stop being so harsh on yourselves and each other.
Thatās exactly why Iām upset at it
All these cool people driven to anger? Not cool, FoL29
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Like, okay. Improvement as town is one thing. But being overly self-critical is another. Weāre not in an environment where the slightest mistake can get you banned and deprive you of joy. Weāre playing a game, and those of us who want to be good at the game try to improve. Thatās it.
That doesnāt mean we have to be perfectionists and dwell on every mistake we make. Just derive lessons and try to apply them. Be aware of the mistakes, but try to fix them next time instead of being frustrated with your shortcomings. They will disappear eventually, but you are making it harder by exaggerating how much of an influence they hold over you.
Okay, you didnāt yeet me. But you correctly wolfread me. You also correctly townread a ton of villagers. Thatās something I havenāt seen anybody mention yet. It was genuinely difficult to push most of you for that reason, and even the āLHFā had something going for them.
Itās not like you did nothing correctly. You did make mistakes (and we took advantage of that), but you also did good things. Try to fix the mistakes, but donāt get fixated on them. Thatās how you reach an extreme where the slightest misstep is a cause for self-hatred. Donāt go there, please. Iāve been there. Itās not a nice place.
I know Iāve made a ton of mistakes this game, but I tried to ignore them while acknowledging them at the same time. Thereās always another day, another time when I might not make them, another hour when I can make a conscious effort to avoid them. Thereās always another game of mafia, and another day of life.
Look forward to it. If anyoneās still mad about this game, donāt be. There will be another one, and you might smash it this time. I guarantee you, you wonāt make the exact same mistakes twice. If we recognize what those mistakes are, that never happens, we just fail to see it.
Life lesson 
from Vulgard over. This is pretty disorganized, but I had a few things to say, so might as well say them.
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