Me and Mine —-—

Off-Topic (Thronepass)
#21

I’m not sure how anyone is expected to understand others if genuine questions about their experience are shot down as “disrespectful”

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#22

That kind of closed-mindedness is pretty much what leads to fear of those who are different in the first place

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#23

she. respect the pronouns.

#24

I say they for everyone. It’s a safe bet

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#25

wait but i thought they was gender neutral

nani the mierda

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#26

True, maybe I am just too sensitive.

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#27

Gender neutral is non-binary/mid-spectrum.
Gender-fluid means switching from one to the other daily or weekly or whenever.

#28

welcome welcome. have a great time here. that’s a mandatory thing, have food time so sorry about that :slight_smile:

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#29

But I thought gender neutral terms were invented so people that identify as some gender I don’t know, I don’t have to play a whack-a-mole game on guessing their gender

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#30

No. They were invented so you can identify as you want to.

#31

But how am I supposed to refer to anyone as IRL w/o knowing their name/gender?

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#32

Ask them.

#33

i use they/them unless i know their gender. saves hassle.

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#34

Check her Description.

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#35

wait i thought this was off topic not fm. this kinda feels like white knighting to me but hey what do i know

#36

But… so If I’m on a business call with a co-worker and they ask me how a gender fluid person is, I’m supposed to call them and say “Hi, what gender do you Identify as today?”

#37

let’s notvget into the flaming dumpster fire that is gender identity politics, gotta get three years here yknow

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#38

And…this thread is kinda getting out of hand :thinking:

#39

No I’m just trying to understand how using they/them is somehow mis-gendering

#40

I know…