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#21

Yeah I don’t understand that at all

Just correct the person and move on

No need to get upset about things

#22

Imagine being able to misgender a priestess smh

#23

I mean

I agree

But also

No need to turn an honest mistake into a fight

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#24

It wasnt an honest mistake, so yea

#25

But the point of the post you quoted was that we shouldn’t get upset at people making mistakes, and that if people are going to be mean then that’s on them.

So I’m not really sure why you’d quote that to bring up what appears to be a case that is essentially completely unrelated to the quoted text talking about people making mistakes?

#26

I presume I was supposed to pick that up from this wink but that really wasn’t communicated clearly imo :man_shrugging:

#27

Cuz “blaming the victim” is not the right move. Everyone has a right on his identity.

#28

What part of “don’t get upset over an honest mistake” is blame?

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#29

Its fine. I understand you.

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#30

I don’t think it’s really possible to find fault with the ideology of “assume people are acting with good intentions and forgive them their mistakes until proven definitively to be acting with intent to harm”, which is the gist here?

You’re absolutely allowed to be hurt by someone who didn’t mean to do so, but that doesn’t mean that lashing out and perpetuating a cycle of hurt is the right move.

At the end of the day, we can only control our own actions.

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#31

Then just avoiding a pronoun works better and use a descriptive phrase. :slight_smile:

#32