Continuing the discussion from SFoL13: Pestilence (Day 2):
While I understand the RL comes first, It’s not unreasonable to ask how long the night will be. Games that take a long time to proceed drain people’s WIM and generally affect activity levels. If you can’t spare the time to start the day, find someone to help out - You have @FadeBlade, @Queen_Alfa and @Methnor who are all mods in this section who are not a player and could get the day started for you.
Yeah
Really f*cking appreciate the public shaming that’s gonna work wonders on my self confidence
I asked on Discord about when the new day was starting. All I got was the thread rant about ‘People constantly asking’ about it. Instead of, you know, either a private response and/or a thread post of ‘Sorry for the delay, RL got in the way. Hopefully starting Weekend.’
Don’t be dicks people. This isn’t hard.
Well, you see
Maybe, asking someone, after they’ve already been asked and reminded, publicly, multiple times, will achieve nothing except pissing them off
I honestly expect a small level of professionalism, a thread rant imo isn’t professional in any way. A simple “IRL got in the way, will try to start it over the weekend” and it would be fine.
Well, you see… I hadn’t seen any questions/answers publicly, So I wouldn’t know 
- I prolly should have DMed this TBF, but the tone of your post pissed me off, so clicked ‘Reply in new topic’ instead of ‘DM Boopydoop’
Pretty much this. It was the tone of the message, not the message, that irked me.
I’m not a professional FoL host
It is not a job, it is not an obligation, it is not a public service
It’s something people do for fun
People do lots of things
People have lots of feelings
And maybe some of these people don’t like being constantly reminded that they’re disappointing everyone and that they’re so useless they can’t even send out a few fuking PMs once a god damn week
So, for the sake of these people, be patient
And we get that, we do. But it’s nobody’s fault that you don’t have time. So don’t blame us for your lack of time either, and we won’t complain. Just calmly say, “Sorry about the delay, RL sucks - maybe weekend I can get this started” - We’d roll our eyes, and wait patiently (I’m sure) 
Ok, maybe I didn’t come across how I meant
“Every time someone asks me how long the night is gonna be I prolong the night”
Seems pretty punitive to me though.
I don’t see that being said anywhere.
It’s because every time someone asks I feel even more shitty and when I feel shitty I don’t do things
