Cannot Reconnect to game after drop out

Due to my poor Wifi connection I occasionally drop out for >40 seconds. When this happens, I am often taken back to the main menu with no option of reconnecting. This is frustrating as I have no way of being sure a game I play I won’t throw, and be reported for.

Unsure why I am not receiving the reconnect to game message, but most people I talk to are telling me that I should have that option.

Please help, can’t really play this game again until I know I’ll be able to stay the whole length.

Thanks!

lol, I disconnected and it said attempting to reconnect.
but after a long while. I give up and press cancel, but the button doesn’t work, so i have to end it with task manager