Although I think a lot of us are on the same page here, I do want to take a second to express that I think there is such thing as trying to clamp down on this kind of stuff too hard.
Way back in the day, I was publicly taken to task by the forum moderators over a game in which I was extremely frustrated that a player was continuously siding with a player that was incredibly obvious scum for what was basically no more reason than them liking that person. I was busy tearing apart their entire stance on the game as a whole when a few of the descriptions I used of their play apparently struck a personal nerve in a way I would have never seen coming, and so these two players had the mods run a public trial in which I was forced to defend myself in front of the entire ToL Discord for things I could have never known would be nearly as insulting as they were.
At the end of the day, Xblade heard what was going on, dropped all charges, and we moved on (and boy was I pissed when that player was indeed scum the whole time), but I don’t want anybody else to ever have to go through anything similar to that.