I don’t know you well in a sense that’s outside of mafia, so I’m going to base it only off of that.
Sometimes your posts come off as slight attacks at a person and it can lead to arguments that are unproductive and clog thread. You have a brand of sarcasm/sass where you very passive-aggressively reply to posts in a way that can feel unfounded. When people engage you double down and it gets into unproductive arguments where 1 person feels like they were just slightly personally attacked and needs to defend themself and the other is you.
Playing with you is like when someone is walking past you in a hall and makes an active attempt to trip you, you can either walk by being minorly offended by it or turn around and ask what’s up. Even if it was done as a joke it can lead to an argument and it actively makes the hallway harder for everyone else to navigate because you have 2 people in the middle of it arguing with minor personal stakes.
I still think you are cool otherwise and good at Mafia when you get past that but it’s definitely something I’ve noticed.