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nobody cares about dancing but I think that we can draw something important from this
It is important to communicate with people.
A lot of what went on was, at least in part, misunderstanding, and lead both of our slots underperforming and focusing on each other in an unproductive way.
I was not interested in defending our slot or trying to make us solvable. We were dying regardless.
Arete was not able to really make reads on slots that werenāt ours.
I think for the circumstances, neither were specifically bad things, but we never communicated these facts to each other or each otherās slots and it lead to two important miscommunications
Arete thought I was just dodging their questions when I just didnāt think it was productive to answer them the way we were communicating.
I thought Arete was dodging my requests to give detailed takes from themselves on slots that were not us, but they just were not able to fufill said requests.
Because neither of us knew this, it lead to a lot of wasted posts and frustration on both of our parts. I donāt think anyone is specifically in the wrong or in the right, I came in to this conversation thinking I specifically was right and that arete was just being a nerd, but after hearing their side I realized that they had been dealing with the exact same thing I was, just that, because it was never communicated, I didnāt realize they were unable to provide those reads, or how they felt when we didnāt answer their questions.
This lead to not only a big argument betweeen us 2 in the game where both people think they are right and the other uncooperative, but also post-game. This hadnāt really been fleshed out so I justā¦ never knew.
This is why it is important to communicate things with people. A lot of things are often left unsaid that make people misunderstand circumstances.
If there is anything effecting the way you are playing or making cases, itās important to say that so people donāt think you are purposefully doing negative things.
If you are going to post lower amounts, tell the game that.
Otherwise, people might think you are flaking or dodging questions becuase you are scum.
If you have not read a chunk of the game, say that before you make your readslist or your read on a person.
Otherwise people are going to think that you purposefully left out things from that part of the game from your read
If you are making a metaread on a person, but havenāt read their past 3 or so games, note that you havenāt read those games before making your meta case
Otherwise, people will think you are purposefully ignoring it.
If you donāt feel comfortable reading someone, say that.
Otherwise, people will think you are dodging reading someone.
this is overall a small thing and probably doesnāt effect too much, but it is just important to communicate with your fellow townies about things in the game.
Donāt leave out small important details about your mindset or how you did something, because they can turn in to bigger misunderstandings and eventually incorrect reads.
I would like to apoligize to arete for not making it clear that I didnāt want to defend my slot, as it lead to a lot of unintended frustration.
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communicate, people, itās a team game and you should make sure that your team knows important things.